•·.·´¯`·.·• Application Hints & Tips •·.·´¯`·.·•

♦ Make sure to fill out your application completely and give as much information as possible. REMEMBER, your application is also your contract.
♦♦ It is imperative to list all of your limits, soft and hard. If you do not list them on your application/contract your winning bidder will not know!
An explanation of some of the application questions are listed below:

 

Gender:

Your gender should be listed as your RL legal gender, if you are in transition or identify as something other than a traditional (binary) male or female you must disclose this information as many bidders feel anything less is misleading and can result in a breach of contract

Seeking:
What are you seeking in an owner? Are you looking for a Master? A Mistress? Maybe a couple? Or any as long as they fit your needs.

Bio:
A crucial part in the application is your bio. This is where you can reach out and touch a potential Owner.
What does being a slave mean to you? Is it the feel of the whip? The sense of being property? Being at someone’s sexual command? What, to you, is the essence of slavery, that makes you want to be sold?
What are you looking for in a potential owner? Is it someone who is firm and unyielding? Is it a Daddy/Mommy Dom? Are you looking for a family?
The largest portion of self-description is your bio. If something really turns you on, mention it–all the ones you that you like. If there are things you really want to avoid, mention them. Some examples of bio’s are at the end of this page.

Available Times:
These are the times you are normally online and available. It does not have to be exact but a good indication of your normal times. Also, many buyers look at your online times not only to see if they match theirs but also so they know when you will be on display to talk to you.
When listing your times please use the format of a beginning an end time in SLT for example 9am – 12pm SLT. (World Time Converter) “I’m flexible” “many” or “yes” are not acceptable answers, we see them a lot, and we will ask you to be more specific. If your times are flexible, and you’re willing to suit a dom’s online time, put in your usual online times, and add a note underneath your schedule that you’re willing to do this. It helps everyone.

Special Services:

What are you offering in terms of communication outside of SL? Are you willing to voice? Cam? Communicate by e-mail or messenger? Will you follow RL orders? If you are not willing to do any of these things at first but may in the future please explain this. None of it is required but many doms are looking for something beyond the reaches of SL. REMEMBER SENSUAL DELIGHTS DOES NOT ENFORCE ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF SL & ONLY SL VOICE IS PERMITTED WHILE ON AUCTION!

Limits:
This is an important section. We all have certain things we just will not do under any circumstance these are hard limits. Remember when listing your hard limits ageplay is against ToS. Soft limits are things that you are not very comfortable doing but with the right dom and trust earned you may be willing to try over time. “no limits” is a wrong answer. Everyone has limits, even if they haven’t fully explored much in BDSM RL/SL. If you don’t know what your limits are, speak up. This is the place to say so NOT mid-contract, when the dom expects you to do something will not do for them. That’s the wrong time to speak up, and it makes for a bad situation all the way around. If you aren’t really aware of all that’s possible please see our Glossary in our BDSM Training Section!

Polyamorous:
Are you willing to enter into a poly relationship? That is typically one dom with multiple slaves. It could also mean a family including several doms. A poly family does not mean that you will be required to have sex with everyone in the family, however, it is often a part of how the family interacts. If you’re comfortable with having chain sisters/brothers, but not having sex with them, take this into consideration. It will broaden the number of doms that might be interested in you, and you can discuss the conditions of the family.

Kinks Checklist:
The checklist is a listing of different things people in D/S relationships may enjoy doing. This is a rating checklist with a rating guide. Feel free to highlight those items that make you melt in that way! You can also use this checklist to help you with your limits… These are some of the most common things we see in D/s relationships in SL, and what our buyers most often are looking for. If you see something on here you don’t like, and aren’t willing to do, it had best be on your limits.

Here are a few actual examples of bio’s in Sensual Delights Auction Slave Applications (Please do not copy these!):

I am a bi girl, very submissive and willing to obey a good master or mistress, I am looking to explore and gain more experience in being a submissive. I have experience in being a pleasure slave in In-worlds and in being in open collar in SL, and have been a prisoner in Pandora’s Box prison and greatly enjoyed it. I love exploring new things and new places and new experiences, enjoy being tied up and helpless, especially in public, and being transformed and being hypnotized and would love to explore this further under a dominant. My limits are no killing, no dismemberment, no scat, no vampire stuff.
Although I don’t accept instructions for RL, what you do to me in SL is likely to impact me in RL as well and I enjoy this and will let you know if this happens. However I don’t have any other link with RL ( no email, no detailed location info, no cam etc). I am an intelligent and lively conversationalist and love chatting about many subjects. I am particularly interested in the theory and practice of submission and the psychology of it.
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lidia loves to be humiliated, being under control, dominated, enjoys being marked, punished, degraded, uses RLV and can be restrained. Last times lidia was a schoolgirl in a Ladies Academy, loves to be under severe discipline and being spanked and caned often. She would like to keep her role of schoolgirl and being treated like a young girl …. enslaved. Her role is very dramatical and sees her slavery as forced. Enjoys orgasm denial, anal fucking and degrading commands. lida prefers being dominated by humans, no preference about Master or Mistress. She can be sold again, forced to whore, dance.. etc… can be trained as Master/Mistress wishes, her look can be changed, or controlled she can wear or not.
She enjoys being whipped, marked , branded, forced to be naked and humiliation specially.
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My name currently is Sandra and I am a 23 y/o submissive student who lives in Lausanne (Switzerland). My native language is French but I am able to exchange in a pretty good English. I am a very obedient girl that seeks to be owned by a strict owner, Master or Mistress. I believe in SL and in some part RL that it is my role to serve and please her Master or Mistress in anyway he deems fit, without question.
If I have to work as escort, I fully know that everything I earn is not mine, but my Owner’s. This girl accepts as well to be dressed than to be nude all the time. She is ready to leave in or out of Gor, as Master or Mistress decides. This girl would cherish the opportunity to be owned by a very strong and controlling Master or Mistress.
This girl agree to be humiliated, being under control, dominated, branded, punished, degraded, obviously use RLV and be restrained. She can be sold again, forced to whore, dance.. etc… can be trained as Master/Mistress wishes, her look can be changed.
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I am a 20 y/o very submissive woman who lives in London. I am a very obedient, loyal, loving, sweet, fun loving girl that seeks to be owned by a strict owner. I believe in both SL and RL that it is the woman’s role to serve and please her Master in anyway he deems fit, without question. It is the Master’s responsibility to provide a safe home and protect his slave. I will obey any command by my Master within my hard limits.
I work as an escort in SL, and for my past 2 Master’s they both had me work for them. I fully know that everything I earn is not mine, but my Owner’s. It gave me great satisfaction to work hard and earn for them, knowing how happy it made them. Continuing this for my next owner would make me a very happy and content slave. I have an extensive list of clients that can be most generous.
One of my biggest likes in SL is fashion. I work very hard to make my avi as perfect as possible, and pay attention to every small detail right down to eyelashes, fingernails, and accessories. It would not work out for me if my new owner insisted that I be naked all the time. There is nothing I like more than dressing up to look my best to make my Master proud to own me in front of others.
I have tried Gor before and I do not think it is for me. While I loved the role of women in Gor society, I belong on earth for my RPing. I would also need a Master that is online quite a bit, as I find that I tend to wander if I am not having my training reinforced. I also love doing non sexual tasks for my owner if that is what he desires. For instance one of my owners asked me to organize his inventory since it was a total disaster with over 15000 items all about. His account that he used was not his primary, but he gave me access to it and I carefully organized it so it was perfect.
I would cherish the opportunity to be owned by a very strong and controlling Master. I would obey Him to the fullest, and submit total control to him. Nothing will please me more than allowing him to dictate everything about me…from naming me if so desired, to what I do in my SL. In return I will honor and obey him and work hard every day to do nothing but please Him.